What the...

So, something I've always wondered is why do gay guys stereotype themselves? I've often been asked if I was gay or straight (while at a gay club) or told that if I was seen walking down the street I wouldn't be pegged as being gay. Secretly, I love that.

But why is it that when a guy comes out of the closet he feels that he has just gained a get out of jail free card to being flamboyant and girly? What's the appeal in that?

I hate to shop. I hate dressing flashy. I don't eat salads for every meal. I don't pluck my eyebrows. I don't wear makeup. I keep my body hair, I do trim yes, but I keep it. I don't want to be a girl. I don't try to be a girl.

But yet I still like dudes.

Personally, every time I see a flamboyantly gay guy I was always ask "why?". Is the fact that you're gay the only interesting part of you? I sincerely hope not.

What the...